ATTRACT

WE DON'T ATTRACT WHAT WE WANT BUT THAT WHICH WHOM WE ARE!!!

Read the sentence above carefully, this is a proven fact... think about it and reflect on yourself and how you precieve who you are and how you act in everyday life....

For instance if you want a good man/woman, you must be a good woman/man, then this is what you will attract!!!

If you want Respect, Love, Honesty, then these are qualities you must have!!!

If you do not like the kind of men/women you are attracting, if you are not getting what you want, then it is time to look to yourself and see how you are comming across to others. When you realize some of your actions and words are what you are attracting and you don't want this, then make changes.... when you make those changes to what and whom you do want to attract, you will be surprised at what and whom comes into your life...

Our thoughts are who we are. What ever we think, this is how we will live our lives! Change your thoughts, change your life....

Start paying attention to how you are acting and what you are saying in everday life, if you feel this is what you have been attracting then it's time to do something about it. If you show compassion and love for yourself as well as others then you will attract many but only the people whom have those qualites will stay, others will move on... I you show stength of character then this is who will come into your life and stay... Live your life to the best and you will be surounded by the BEST.... Abundance will flow into your life!!!

FAITH

A word we all seem to not think about that much… This is a word with a feeling much greater than us… Without Faith we will fall …. Faith is hope, belief and were our dreams come from. With out faith we have no dreams, they are just a thought. I have asked some people, what are your dreams, there answer has been I don’t have any, I then ask them if they have faith in something, someone, themselves, and in God…. They struggle to think about what I have asked…

First we need to have Faith in something greater than us (GOD, Jesus, what ever you believe is your greater power)… Then we need to have faith in ourselves, our partner, family, friends etc… With out FAITH the human race will destroy itself… Think about it, if you do not have anything to believe in, you plummet into deep despair… Unless you get your faith back in yourself and your greater power you are slowly dying… You will eventually cease to exist…

With Faith you can accomplish anything… your dreams will come closer and closer… Your love will become stronger and engulf you and who ever is around you… You will feel positive in every part of your life… You will become a magnet to all around you… It all starts with FAITH in your greater power and yourself, then it will reach far and wide, everything will start to come together.

Attraction and Flirting

Just goes together, can’t have one with out the other… and when they come together, “WOW”!!! You feel it all through you body. It’s a good feeling…. Then the Flirting starts ever so slowly…. First a smile with some eye contact… then the look, ever so subtle, in hopes he/she is also looking your way. The way you Smile and use your eyes is another way of saying I am attracted to you…

You both know now that you are feeling attraction. Now the playfulness …. This is the fun stuff. You start to tease with words and body language and always using your eyes and smiles to also tell a story. You challenge, tease, test each other, all the time getting to know what each of you likes and dislikes. Lots of laughter and humor this will intensify the attraction… Times stops and by now you don’t even know there is anyone else in the room, it’s just the two of you… The night is coming to an end and of course you don’t want it to end but it must. He may ask for your telephone number or just say good night and ask if you will be back around. Oh how you are tempted to stay like this all through the night but something says wait… So you say good night and wait until you meet again.

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When He Pulls Away

We have all been there, have this great guy we have been seeing for a while and everything is going great and then suddenly he pulls away!!! We have no idea what has gone wrong. If you chase after him calling, following, emailing it will only chase him further away and he will think you are stalking him. So what should you do, nothing, just go about your life and do the things that make you happy. Yes I mean it, leave him alone, he is acting out and needs to pull away for awhile. He will come back when he has gone though what is necessary to feel his love for you again. It isn't that he does not love you he just needs a break from his emotions. He will return. Don't try and force him to do what he does not want to do and he will love you that much more. Men don't want to feel they have to report into us like we are mom. They do not want a mom they want a partner and a lover... If he does not come back, then he did not love you, It will hurt but you don't want to be someone who does not adore you.

Wisdom, Courage, Forgiveness

So you have met a man and he has swept you off your feet, you feel like you are walking on clouds, that just maybe he will be the one. You start to day dream about him, you're always seeing him in your thoughts and thinking about when you will hear from him or see him again. Then as you get to know one another a little bit more, some inconsistencies start to appear, he only contacts you on certain days and on the days you don't see him he is nowhere to be found, it is like he just disappears. He begins to be very inconsistent in some of the information he has given you in the beginning, to what he is now telling you, it just doesn't add up.

You are getting a very uneasy feeling but yet you keep making up excuses for all his bad behavior. You want to believe their is a reason for all of this, so you keep seeing him. You're feelings are getting stronger and what is really happening is you are falling for another man, the one he wants you to think he is.

You know deep inside that this will end and yet you still hold onto the false belief's that their must be a reason, but there isn't.... he is playing you and you must have the strength to break away before wasting any more energy on a man who is not worthy of you.

We are in love with the feeling he gives us, not the man he is. This is were you must distinguish the difference and move forward with your life. Do not have anymore contact with him and hold steady to this. Once you have been free of contact with him the feeling will diminish and eventually you will not feel the same for him anymore... keep busy, stop yourself from thinking about him and let time help you.

When one door closes another will open. First have the wisdom to except the truth, then have the courage to walk away with out looking back.

Do not beat yourself up over this, instead be proud that you have the wisdom and courage to admit your mistake, then to learn from it. This is a gift you give yourself, Forgiveness, then forgive him so that you can completely let go.

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"WHAT ATTRACTS A MAN"

Attracting a Man takes so much more than a beautiful body. If you don't have the confidence and self esteem you won't keep his Attraction. You may for just a one night stand but he'll then move on. A woman who can keep a mans interest is one who takes care of herself and who knows what she wants and won't settle for anything less.

When a woman is happy with who she is, makes herself happy and has a great attitude this will attract a man and keep him around wanting to know more about you. He will find you intriguing and a mystery.

Smiling is another great turn on for a man, a woman who can smile and always have a good attitude towards life will become a magnet. Women you must love the company of a man. If you have a bad attitude towards men they'll know it and feel it, you will turn them off, moving in the opposite direction (away from you instead of towards you). Go to my website for FREE articles and sign up for my FREE newsletter.

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"MEN ARE AWESOME"

I always want to be chased by a man, makes a woman feel special and strokes our ego's. He can make a great friend but then he can also make for a wonderful partner and lover, who will always ignite our fires that will burn for the remainder of our lives, yes they may flicker for a while and then he may say or do something and "WOW", our flames are burning out of control again... Ladies I don't know about you but without men to charm us, play with us, smile at us, hold us and make us feel all that intense attraction, I wouldn't want to be on planet earth without them. Men are awesome creatures, can be very witty, then without any warning he will all of a sudden become that little boy that is so attractive, he becomes so cute. Look for his qualities and concentrate on them , allow him to flirt and play with you, most of all enjoy giving it back, you will reap the benefits trust me he will love you forever....

Remember to always have Fun with him, he lives to please a woman who admires him and trusts him.....

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