When He Pulls Away

We have all been there, have this great guy we have been seeing for a while and everything is going great and then suddenly he pulls away!!! We have no idea what has gone wrong. If you chase after him calling, following, emailing it will only chase him further away and he will think you are stalking him. So what should you do, nothing, just go about your life and do the things that make you happy. Yes I mean it, leave him alone, he is acting out and needs to pull away for awhile. He will come back when he has gone though what is necessary to feel his love for you again. It isn't that he does not love you he just needs a break from his emotions. He will return. Don't try and force him to do what he does not want to do and he will love you that much more. Men don't want to feel they have to report into us like we are mom. They do not want a mom they want a partner and a lover... If he does not come back, then he did not love you, It will hurt but you don't want to be someone who does not adore you.